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Frequently Asked Questions About Tantra

FAQ

1.    ​How Do I Book My Massage?

We are here for you every day including weekends and holidays.  Although we have a bookings page, it is best to call direct.  It may be possible to book on the day but booking in advance is ideal.  When booking, kindly provide your first name, type of massage and day, hour you prefer.  All bookings need to be confirmed by text 2 hours in advance AND the night before for morning appointments and 4 hours in advance for afternoon and evening. There is a booking form which you are welcome to use.  But please note that we can only guarantee by direct telephone contact with us.

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2.    ​What is Tantra?

A journey that leads to total relaxation and vibrant positive energisation.  The massage itself can only be truly Tantra with the Tantra theory of energy awareness that includes sexual energy enlightenment. Then the Tantric massage itself will provide full, sensual, loving, tender, passionate, playful and fun experience.  Tantra is not a sexual service in that stimulation of the genitals to orgasm is not the goal but part of an energisation experience that can be taken away and applied at home. ​

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3.    What Can I expect?

Our treatment is accompanied by an introduction, ritual and massage with wonderful, beautiful soothing music.  You will enjoy and benefit from the essential fragrance of oriental perfumes feeling in every an awesome magical sensation as every pore and part of you is devoted by your tantric priest and priestess.

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4.    ​It is possible to Shower?

Yes, there is for a shower, shower gel, hair shampoo, towels, hair dryer use of toiletries or even a bath (extra charge).  We do expect you to have showered immediately before you arrive or when you arrive as every area of your body is massaged. ​

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5.    ​Are you Naked, I heard a lot of therapists keep a robe/underwear on? ​  

We said we will be naked.  We will be naked!

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6.    ​Can I touch?

We provide an environment where respect and trust will be gained and touching may seem a natural part in response to this; it is not demanded, offered or sold.  Equally we understand such natural response and we respond accordingly.  As the giver, we genuinely care for you with a great deal of attention, trust and tenderness, and ask you to respect Tantra touch is loving and gentle and to please avoid distraction of other thoughts (e.g. intercourse, sexual services etc.) as this would be a lack of respect for the skills we worked so hard to acquire.  This approach ensures we conform to the legal requirements in the way that our services are advertised.  If you allow the experience to develop in a loving, gentle, natural way you will find the experience tends to be much more connective, truly a shared journey.

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7.    ​Do I have to be shaved or waxed in my intimate areas?

No, not at all.  Whatever you feel comfortable with (we also provide waxing services).  Your therapists maybe waxed too!

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8.    ​​Do I Provide mutual massage?

We are professional, professional work, where we value our clients and themselves.  Tantric therapy and its associated massage teaches energy with love and spiritual devotion, and with such awareness you can use in your personal life, beauty and fulfil your intimate relationships and understanding of your own needs.  There is an Educational option where we demonstrate how massage is done and then you can have some practical massage experience.

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9.    ​Can I have Intercourse?

In a Tantra lifestyle, Sexual Union is natural and is referred to as Tantric Sex and frequently this happens from a Tantra Massage by a couple practising Tantra yet sustained arousal levels from the massage does not necessarily lead to what most people would consider an orgasm; instead it leads to a more spiritual state of ecstacy.  We cannot nor will not  be seen to be, or even offer, to sell such a service for legal, respect and Tantra reasons.  Genuinely we point out if your focus is on this, we will not have respect for you, you will not respect our skills and so then there will be no connection at all.  You also will not be able to appreciate the music, room and our skills which will mean we feel abused and not respected.  However, focus on what we are doing, show respect for us and our massage and the body becomes a temple, a place to worship and as adults the mind and body can respond in amazing, unique ways to the power of such a massage.

10. ​Can I ejaculate / have an orgasm during the massage?

​Tongue in cheek, but who knows or can predict how you will respond until you have experienced Tantra!?  Legally and holistically in Tantra, orgasm is not the goal nor goal orientated, more a way of life.  Through Tantra you will learn how to achieve ultimate relaxation and positive vibrant energy as a result of the body and mind stimulation raising your awareness of your personal energy field (spiritual) aspect meaning a holistic experience.  But unlike other Holistic therapies, Tantra does not exclude Sexual energy and so Yes, this can happen, indeed anything can happen and can even happen in meditation; note Tantra can be had by meditation alone, the massage purely accelerates the sensations. Through taking away your experience of Tantra with you, men can experience non-ejaculatory orgasms, women can experience unusual emissions or you may simply fall asleep.  If a client had orgasms in a male case ejaculatory or not, there is no charge nor is there a discount as the orgasm is not the goal. Of course as therapists we are human, we may respond to different situations, but, unlike outside of therapy, we don't walk away disappointed expecting some reciprocal action, as it is all about YOU, who as the Client are the primary receiver and therapist the giver of this experience. 

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11. ​I can choose a masseuse?

​Yes, you can choose husband or wife.  However, as a general guide the wife does not take first time males clients on her own, the four handed is a better option as then the wife is more relaxed and confident.

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12. ​​Before Prostate / G-Spot do I need any special preparation?

​Elimination of waste products and a shower or bath and thorough clean are essential for hygiene and to avoid any embarrassment.

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​​13. If I am ‘On’ (menstruating) can I still have massage?

​There is no reason why not as the entre person and their natural state is being devoted to.

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